Dating after devorce
But however you got here, the question now is where do you go from here?And how do you figure out who you are and what you want as a newly single person?"It's common to sweep these emotions under the table, but you have to work through them or they'll pollute your life going forward," Alberti says.If you find yourself resisting the idea of therapy, you might want to keep in mind that therapy doesn't mean you have a problem or that you're in crisis.Society is much more accepting of singles than even a decade ago, when solo restaurant diners often got the hairy eyeball.
"You might think that there must be something wrong with you if you couldn't make this relationship work," Alberti says.
Maybe it's trying a new sport, considering a different place of worship, or going back to college.
Maybe you realize that you'd like to move to a new city or even spend a year living in Paris.
Of course, you can't just flit away and throw caution to the wind.
Chances are, you have some very real considerations -- kids (if you're a parent), a job, and a budget (which may have been hurt by the divorce).